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My household belongs to the Lord. We put away corrupt speech, forgive as Christ forgave us, and let His peace rule in our home. God gives wisdom, protection, and grace for every relationship.

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18The LORD God also said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make for him a suitable helper.” 19And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the air, and He brought them to the man to see what he would name each one. And whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. 20The man gave names to all the livestock, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field. But for Adam no suitable helper was found. 21So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep, and while he slept, He took one of the man’s ribs and closed up the area with flesh. 22And from the rib that the LORD God had taken from the man, He made a woman and brought her to him. 23And the man said: “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for out of man she was taken.” 24For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. 25And the man and his wife were both naked, and they were not ashamed.

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Marriage is God's design, and He gave it as a gift. I honor the covenant of one flesh and treat my marriage as a good work of God's hands.

4Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is One. 5And you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. 6These words I am commanding you today are to be upon your hearts. 7And you shall teach them diligently to your children and speak of them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 8Tie them as reminders on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. 9Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates.

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The Lord is my God, and I love Him with all my heart, soul, and strength. His words are on my heart. I speak of them in my home, on the road, when I lie down, and when I rise.

15But if it is unpleasing in your sight to serve the LORD, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living. As for me and my house, we will serve the LORD!”

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As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

1A song of ascents. Of Solomon. Unless the LORD builds the house, its builders labor in vain; unless the LORD protects the city, its watchmen stand guard in vain. 2In vain you rise early and stay up late, toiling for bread to eat—for He gives sleep to His beloved. 3Children are indeed a heritage from the LORD, and the fruit of the womb is His reward. 4Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are children born in one’s youth. 5Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. He will not be put to shame when he confronts the enemies at the gate.

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Unless the Lord builds my house, I labor in vain. I will not run on anxious toil, because He gives sleep to those He loves. My children are a heritage from the Lord.

1A song of ascents. Blessed are all who fear the LORD, who walk in His ways! 2For when you eat the fruit of your labor, blessings and prosperity will be yours. 3Your wife will be like a fruitful vine flourishing within your house, your sons like olive shoots sitting around your table. 4In this way indeed shall blessing come to the man who fears the LORD. 5May the LORD bless you from Zion, that you may see the prosperity of Jerusalem all the days of your life, 6that you may see your children’s children. Peace be upon Israel!

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I fear the Lord and walk in His ways, and I will eat the fruit of my labor. Blessing and peace rest on my home, my table, and my children.

21Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. 24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her 26to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to Himself as a glorious church, without stain or wrinkle or any such blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29Indeed, no one ever hated his own body, but he nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church. 30For we are members of His body. 31“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church. 33Nevertheless, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

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I submit to others out of reverence for Christ. In my marriage I love as Christ loved the church, giving myself for the good of my spouse. Our home reflects Christ and His church.

1Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2“Honor your father and mother” (which is the first commandment with a promise), 3“that it may go well with you and that you may have a long life on the earth.” 4Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath; instead, bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

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In our home, children honor father and mother, and it goes well with them. Parents do not provoke, but bring up our children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

12Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with hearts of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 13Bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone else. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14And over all these virtues put on love, which is the bond of perfect unity. 15Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, for to this you were called as members of one body. And be thankful. 16Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. 17And whatever you do, in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him. 18Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them. 20Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing to the Lord. 21Fathers, do not provoke your children, so they will not become discouraged.

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I clothe myself with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. I forgive as the Lord forgave me. Over everything I put on love, and I let the peace of Christ rule in my home.

27So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. 28God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth and subdue it; rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and every creature that crawls upon the earth.”

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God made me in His own image; male and female He created us. He blesses our family and calls us to be fruitful, to fill the earth and to care for it. I receive His blessing on our home.

19For I have chosen him, so that he will command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just, in order that the LORD may bring upon Abraham what He has promised.”

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The Lord has chosen me, so I will lead my children and my household after me to keep His way. I will do what is right and just in my home, trusting God to bring what He has promised.

12Honor your father and mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you.

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I honor my father and my mother. I receive God's promise that my days may be long in the land He gives me.

18Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as reminders on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. 19Teach them to your children, speaking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 20Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates, 21so that as long as the heavens are above the earth, your days and those of your children may be multiplied in the land that the LORD swore to give your fathers.

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I fix God's words in my heart and mind. I teach them to my children when we sit at home and walk along the road, when we lie down and when we get up. May our days and our children's days be multiplied in the Lord's goodness.

16But Ruth replied: “Do not urge me to leave you or to turn from following you. For wherever you go, I will go, and wherever you live, I will live; your people will be my people, and your God will be my God. 17Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. May the LORD punish me, and ever so severely, if anything but death separates you and me.”

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Where my family goes, I will go; where they live, I will live. Their God is my God. I hold to my loved ones with a covenant loyalty that does not let go.

27I prayed for this boy, and since the LORD has granted me what I asked of Him, 28I now dedicate the boy to the LORD. For as long as he lives, he is dedicated to the LORD.” So they worshiped the LORD there.

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Lord, I prayed for this child, and You granted what I asked of You. So I dedicate this child to You for as long as they live. I worship You here.

1A Maskil of Asaph. Give ear, O my people, to my instruction; listen to the words of my mouth. 2I will open my mouth in parables; I will utter things hidden from the beginning, 3that we have heard and known and our fathers have relayed to us. 4We will not hide them from their children but will declare to the next generation the praises of the LORD and His might and the wonders He has performed. 5For He established a testimony in Jacob and appointed a law in Israel, which He commanded our fathers to teach to their children, 6that the coming generation would know them—even children yet to be born—to arise and tell their own children 7that they should put their confidence in God, not forgetting His works, but keeping His commandments.

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I will not hide the works of the Lord from my children. I will declare to the next generation His praises, His might, and the wonders He has done. May they set their confidence in God and keep His commandments.

13As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear Him.

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As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on me because I fear Him. I show that same compassion in my home.

1A song of ascents. Of David. Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in harmony! 2It is like fine oil on the head, running down on the beard, running down Aaron’s beard over the collar of his robes. 3It is like the dew of Hermon falling on the mountains of Zion. For there the LORD has bestowed the blessing of life forevermore.

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How good and pleasant it is when we live together in harmony. Lord, let our home be like fine oil and refreshing dew, for there You bestow Your blessing of life forevermore.

8Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction, and do not forsake the teaching of your mother. 9For they are a garland of grace on your head and a pendant around your neck.

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I listen to my father's instruction and do not forsake my mother's teaching. They are a garland of grace on my head and a pendant around my neck.

20My son, keep your father’s commandment, and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. 21Bind them always upon your heart; tie them around your neck. 22When you walk, they will guide you; when you lie down, they will watch over you; when you awake, they will speak to you. 23For this commandment is a lamp, this teaching is a light, and the reproofs of discipline are the way to life,

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I keep my father's commandment and do not forsake my mother's teaching; I bind them on my heart. When I walk they guide me, when I lie down they watch over me, and when I wake they speak to me. God's commandment is my lamp and the way to life.

22A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, but the sinner’s wealth is passed to the righteous. 24He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.

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As a good person I leave an inheritance to my children's children. Because I love my child, I discipline diligently rather than withhold correction.

1Every wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one tears it down with her own hands. 26He who fears the LORD is secure in confidence, and his children shall have a place of refuge.

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With wisdom I build my house instead of tearing it down with my own hands. Because I fear the Lord, I am secure in confidence, and my children have a place of refuge.

17Better a dish of vegetables where there is love than a fattened ox with hatred. 20A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish man despises his mother. 27He who is greedy for unjust gain brings trouble on his household, but he who hates bribes will live.

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I choose a simple meal where there is love over a feast with hatred. I bring joy to my parents by walking in wisdom. I refuse unjust gain that brings trouble on my household.

1Better a dry morsel in quietness than a house full of feasting with strife. 6Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of a son is his father. 17A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

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I choose a dry morsel in quietness over a house full of feasting with strife. Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and I treasure the generations in my family. I love at all times and stand with my family in adversity.

22He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.

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Whoever finds a spouse finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. I receive marriage as a good gift and as the Lord's favor.

13A foolish son is his father’s ruin, and a quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping. 14Houses and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD. 18Discipline your son, for in that there is hope; do not be party to his death.

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Houses and wealth are inherited, but a prudent spouse is from the Lord, and I thank Him for that gift. I refuse to be a source of quarreling or ruin in my home. I discipline my child while there is hope.

7The righteous man walks with integrity; blessed are his children after him.

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I walk with integrity as a righteous person, and my children are blessed after me.

6Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.

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I train up my child in the way they should go, trusting that when they are old they will not depart from it.

22Listen to your father who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old. 23Invest in truth and never sell it—in wisdom and instruction and understanding. 24The father of a righteous man will greatly rejoice, and he who fathers a wise son will delight in him. 25May your father and mother be glad, and may she who gave you birth rejoice!

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I listen to my father who gave me life, and I do not despise my mother when she is old. I invest in truth, wisdom, and understanding and never sell them. May my father and mother be glad, and may she who gave me birth rejoice.

3By wisdom a house is built and by understanding it is established; 4through knowledge its rooms are filled with every precious and beautiful treasure.

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By wisdom my house is built, and by understanding it is established. Through knowledge its rooms are filled with every precious and beautiful treasure.

15A rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a child left to himself disgraces his mother. 17Discipline your son, and he will give you rest; he will bring delight to your soul.

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I correct my child with wisdom rather than leaving them to themselves. I discipline my child in love, and they will give me rest and bring delight to my soul.

10A wife of noble character, who can find? She is far more precious than rubies. 11The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he lacks nothing of value. 12She brings him good and not harm all the days of her life. 13She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. 14She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. 15She rises while it is still night to provide food for her household and portions for her maidservants. 16She appraises a field and buys it; from her earnings she plants a vineyard. 17She girds herself with strength and shows that her arms are strong. 18She sees that her gain is good, and her lamp is not extinguished at night. 19She stretches out her hands to the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. 20She opens her arms to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy. 21When it snows, she has no fear for her household, for they are all clothed in scarlet. 22She makes coverings for her bed; her clothing is fine linen and purple. 23Her husband is known at the city gates, where he sits among the elders of the land. 24She makes linen garments and sells them; she delivers sashes to the merchants. 25Strength and honor are her clothing, and she can laugh at the days to come. 26She opens her mouth with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. 27She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. 28Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband praises her as well: 29“Many daughters have done noble things, but you surpass them all!” 30Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. 31Give her the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her at the gates.

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I fear the Lord, and that is worth more than charm or fleeting beauty. I work with eager hands, watch over the affairs of my household, open my hands to the needy, and speak with wisdom and faithful instruction. Strength and honor are my clothing, and I can laugh at the days to come.

9Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. 10For if one falls down, his companion can lift him up; but pity the one who falls without another to help him up! 11Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; but how can one keep warm alone? 12And though one may be overpowered, two can resist. Moreover, a cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

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Two are better than one. When one of us falls, the other lifts them up; together we keep warm and stand firm. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

14Yet you ask, “Why?” It is because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have broken faith, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. 15Has not the LORD made them one, having a portion of the Spirit? And why one? Because He seeks godly offspring. So guard yourselves in your spirit and do not break faith with the wife of your youth. 16“For I hate divorce,” says the LORD, the God of Israel. “He who divorces his wife covers his garment with violence,” says the LORD of Hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit and do not break faith.

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The Lord is witness to my marriage covenant. I guard myself in my spirit and do not break faith with the spouse of my youth. God has made us one, and He seeks godly offspring from our home.

6And he will turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers. Otherwise, I will come and strike the land with a curse.”

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Lord, turn my heart toward my children and turn their hearts toward me. I open my heart to reconciliation in my family.

9Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? 10Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? 11So if you who are evil know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!

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I give good gifts to my children as best I know how, never a stone for bread. How much more will my Father in heaven give good things to me when I ask Him.

4Jesus answered, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ 5and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? 6So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.” 13Then little children were brought to Jesus for Him to place His hands on them and pray for them. And the disciples rebuked those who brought them. 14But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to Me, and do not hinder them! For the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” 15And after He had placed His hands on them, He went on from there.

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From the beginning the Creator made us male and female, and in marriage two become one flesh. What God has joined together, I will not separate. I bring the little children to Jesus and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.

51Then He went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them. But His mother treasured up all these things in her heart. 52And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.

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Like Jesus, I honor the authority God has placed in my life and grow in wisdom and stature. I treasure the things God does in my family in my heart. May our home grow in favor with God and with people.

11Then Jesus said, “There was a man who had two sons. 12The younger son said to him, ‘Father, give me my share of the estate.’ So he divided his property between them. 13After a few days, the younger son got everything together and journeyed to a distant country, where he squandered his wealth in wild living. 14After he had spent all he had, a severe famine swept through that country, and he began to be in need. 15So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed the pigs. 16He longed to fill his belly with the pods the pigs were eating, but no one would give him a thing. 17Finally he came to his senses and said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have plenty of food, but here I am, starving to death! 18I will get up and go back to my father and say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. 19I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Make me like one of your hired servants.”’ 20So he got up and went to his father. But while he was still in the distance, his father saw him and was filled with compassion. He ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him. 21The son declared, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ 22But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. 23Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let us feast and celebrate. 24For this son of mine was dead and is alive again! He was lost and is found!’ So they began to celebrate. 25Meanwhile the older son was in the field, and as he approached the house, he heard music and dancing. 26So he called one of the servants and asked what was going on. 27‘Your brother has returned,’ he said, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has him back safe and sound.’ 28The older son became angry and refused to go in. So his father came out and pleaded with him. 29But he answered his father, ‘Look, all these years I have served you and never disobeyed a commandment of yours. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. 30But when this son of yours returns from squandering your wealth with prostitutes, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ 31‘Son, you are always with me,’ the father said, ‘and all that is mine is yours. 32But it was fitting to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’”

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When I wander, my Father sees me from a distance, runs to me, and embraces me. I am not a hired servant but a child brought home. I will not stand outside in resentment; I will celebrate when the lost in my family are found.

26When Jesus saw His mother and the disciple whom He loved standing nearby, He said to His mother, “Woman, here is your son.” 27Then He said to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” So from that hour, this disciple took her into his home.

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Even from the cross, Jesus made sure His mother would be cared for. I take responsibility for the care of my parents and family, and I open my home to those Jesus entrusts to me.

1At Caesarea there was a man named Cornelius, a centurion in what was called the Italian Regiment. 2He and all his household were devout and God-fearing. He gave generously to the people and prayed to God regularly. 3One day at about the ninth hour, he had a clear vision of an angel of God who came to him and said, “Cornelius!” 4Cornelius stared at him in fear and asked, “What is it, Lord?” The angel answered, “Your prayers and gifts to the poor have ascended as a memorial offering before God. 24The following day he arrived in Caesarea, where Cornelius was expecting them and had called together his relatives and close friends. 44While Peter was still speaking these words, the Holy Spirit fell upon all who heard his message. 45All the circumcised believers who had accompanied Peter were astounded that the gift of the Holy Spirit had been poured out even on the Gentiles. 46For they heard them speaking in tongues and exalting God. Then Peter said, 47“Can anyone withhold the water to baptize these people? They have received the Holy Spirit just as we have!” 48So he ordered that they be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ. Then they asked him to stay for a few days.

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Like Cornelius, I lead my household to be devout and God-fearing. Our prayers and gifts rise as a memorial before God. I gather my relatives and friends to hear the word, and the Holy Spirit falls on all who hear.

14Among those listening was a woman named Lydia, a dealer in purple cloth from the city of Thyatira, who was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to respond to Paul’s message. 15And when she and her household had been baptized, she urged us, “If you consider me a believer in the Lord, come and stay at my house.” And she persuaded us. 31They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved, you and your household.” 32Then Paul and Silas spoke the word of the Lord to him and to everyone in his house. 33At that hour of the night, the jailer took them and washed their wounds. And without delay, he and all his household were baptized. 34Then he brought them into his home and set a meal before them. So he and all his household rejoiced that they had come to believe in God.

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I believe in the Lord Jesus and I am saved. I speak the word of the Lord to everyone in my house and open my home in hospitality. We rejoice together that we have come to believe in God.

1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good to abstain from sexual relations. 2But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife. 5Do not deprive each other, except by mutual consent and for a time, so you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again, so that Satan will not tempt you through your lack of self-control. 6I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. 8Now to the unmarried and widows I say this: It is good for them to remain unmarried, as I am. 9But if they cannot control themselves, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion. 10To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. 12To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If a brother has an unbelieving wife and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13And if a woman has an unbelieving husband and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his believing wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 15But if the unbeliever leaves, let him go. The believing brother or sister is not bound in such cases. God has called you to live in peace. 16How do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?

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I fulfill my marital duty and do not deprive my spouse; our bodies belong to each other. I will not separate from or divorce my spouse, and if my spouse does not believe, I remain willing to live together in peace. God has called me to peace.

14See, I am ready to come to you a third time, and I will not be a burden, because I am not seeking your possessions, but you. For children should not have to save up for their parents, but parents for their children. 15And for the sake of your souls, I will most gladly spend my money and myself. If I love you more, will you love me less?

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Parents save up for their children, not children for their parents. I will gladly spend myself and what I have for the sake of my family's souls.

4An overseer must manage his own household well and keep his children under control, with complete dignity. 5For if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how can he care for the church of God? 12A deacon must be the husband of but one wife, a good manager of his children and of his own household.

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I manage my own household well and lead my children with complete dignity. I keep faith with my spouse, and my home is my first place of faithful care.

1Do not rebuke an older man, but appeal to him as to a father. Treat younger men as brothers, 2older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity. 3Honor the widows who are truly widows. 4But if a widow has children or grandchildren, they must first learn to show godliness to their own family and repay their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God. 8If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. 16If any believing woman has dependent widows, she must assist them and not allow the church to be burdened, so that it can help the widows who are truly in need.

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I treat older men as fathers and older women as mothers, younger people as brothers and sisters, with absolute purity. I show godliness first to my own family and repay my parents. I provide for my own household, for this pleases God.

2Older men are to be temperate, dignified, self-controlled, and sound in faith, love, and perseverance. 3Older women, likewise, are to be reverent in their behavior, not slanderers or addicted to much wine, but teachers of good. 4In this way they can train the young women to love their husbands and children, 5to be self-controlled, pure, managers of their households, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be discredited. 6In the same way, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. 7In everything, show yourself to be an example by doing good works. In your teaching show integrity, dignity, 8and wholesome speech that is above reproach, so that anyone who opposes us will be ashamed, having nothing bad to say about us.

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I live temperate, dignified, self-controlled, and sound in faith, love, and perseverance. I love my spouse and children and manage my household with kindness and purity. I show myself an example of good works so that God's word is not discredited.

1Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands, so that even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives 2when they see your pure and reverent demeanor. 3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair or gold jewelry or fine clothes, 4but from the inner disposition of your heart, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight. 5For this is how the holy women of the past adorned themselves. They put their hope in God and were submissive to their husbands, 6just as Sarah obeyed Abraham and called him lord. And you are her children if you do what is right and refuse to give way to fear. 7Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered. 8Finally, all of you, be like-minded and sympathetic, love as brothers, be tenderhearted and humble. 9Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.

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I win my spouse over with pure and reverent behavior, not by words alone. I cultivate a gentle and quiet spirit, precious in God's sight, and I treat my spouse with consideration and honor as a fellow heir of grace, so our prayers are not hindered. I do not repay insult with insult but with blessing.

6Set me as a seal over your heart, as a seal upon your arm. For love is as strong as death, its jealousy as unrelenting as Sheol. Its sparks are fiery flames, the fiercest blaze of all. 7Mighty waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away. If a man were to give all the wealth of his house for love, his offer would be utterly scorned.

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Set me as a seal over your heart, as a seal upon your arm. Our love is as strong as death; mighty waters cannot quench it, and rivers cannot sweep it away. I will not trade it for all the wealth of my house.

29Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up the one in need and bringing grace to those who listen. 30And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, outcry and slander, along with every form of malice. 32Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.

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I let no unwholesome talk come out of my mouth, only what builds up and gives grace to those who listen. I get rid of bitterness, rage, and anger in my home. I am kind and tenderhearted, forgiving my family just as in Christ God forgave me.

25Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one another. 26“Be angry, yet do not sin.” Do not let the sun set upon your anger, 27and do not give the devil a foothold. 28He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing good with his own hands, that he may have something to share with the one in need.

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I put off falsehood and speak truthfully in my home, for we are members of one another. When I am angry I do not sin; I do not let the sun set on my anger or give the devil a foothold. I work with my own hands so I have something to share.

4Marriage should be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.

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I honor marriage and keep the marriage bed undefiled. I turn from sexual immorality and adultery, for God will judge them.

15Drink water from your own cistern, and running water from your own well. 16Why should your springs flow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? 17Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers. 18May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth: 19A loving doe, a graceful fawn—may her breasts satisfy you always; may you be captivated by her love forever.

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I drink water from my own cistern; my love belongs to my spouse alone and is never shared with strangers. May my fountain be blessed, and may I rejoice in the spouse of my youth and be captivated by their love forever.

9Enjoy life with your beloved wife all the days of the fleeting life that God has given you under the sun—all your fleeting days. For this is your portion in life and in your labor under the sun.

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I enjoy life with my beloved spouse all the days God has given me under the sun. This is my portion in life and in my labor.

13Then all your sons will be taught by the LORD, and great will be their prosperity.

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All my children will be taught by the Lord, and great will be their peace.

5A father of the fatherless and a defender of widows is God in His holy habitation. 6God settles the lonely in families; He leads the prisoners out to prosperity, but the rebellious dwell in a sun-scorched land.

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God is a father of the fatherless and a defender of widows in His holy habitation. He settles the lonely in families. I receive Him as Father in my home and welcome the lonely as He does.

15When Joseph’s brothers saw that their father was dead, they said, “What if Joseph bears a grudge? Then he will surely repay us for all the evil that we did to him.” 16So they sent word to Joseph, saying, “Before he died, your father commanded, 17‘This is what you are to say to Joseph: I beg you, please forgive the transgression and sin of your brothers, for they did you wrong.’ So now, Joseph, please forgive the transgression of the servants of the God of your father.” When their message came to him, Joseph wept. 18His brothers also came to him, bowed down before him, and said, “We are your slaves!” 19But Joseph replied, “Do not be afraid. Am I in the place of God? 20As for you, what you intended against me for evil, God intended for good, in order to accomplish a day like this—to preserve the lives of many people. 21Therefore do not be afraid. I will provide for you and your little ones.” So Joseph reassured his brothers and spoke kindly to them.

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Like Joseph, I forgive the wrongs done to me by my family. I am not in the place of God; what was intended against me for evil, God intended for good. I do not hold a grudge; I speak kindly and provide for my family.

5I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first dwelt in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice, and I am convinced is in you as well.

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I thank God for the sincere faith that dwelt in those who taught me, and I am convinced that same faith lives in me. I pass sincere faith on to the children in my home.

14But as for you, continue in the things you have learned and firmly believed, since you know from whom you have learned them. 15From infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

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I continue in what I have learned and firmly believed, remembering from whom I learned it. I teach my children the Holy Scriptures from infancy, for they are able to make them wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

5And when the days of feasting were over, Job would send for his children to purify them, rising early in the morning to offer burnt offerings for all of them. For Job thought, “Perhaps my children have sinned and cursed God in their hearts.” This was Job’s regular practice.

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Like Job, I rise early and bring my children before God. I regularly intercede for each of them, asking that their hearts be kept from sin. This is my regular practice.

3For I will pour water on the thirsty land, and currents on the dry ground. I will pour out My Spirit on your descendants, and My blessing on your offspring. 4They will sprout among the grass like willows by flowing streams.

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Lord, pour water on the thirsty land and currents on dry ground. Pour out Your Spirit on my descendants and Your blessing on my offspring. Let them sprout like willows by flowing streams.

23So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24leave your gift there before the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.

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When I remember that someone has something against me, I go first and seek reconciliation. Then I come and offer my gift to God.

9Love must be sincere. Detest what is evil; cling to what is good. 10Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Outdo yourselves in honoring one another. 11Do not let your zeal subside; keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, persistent in prayer. 13Share with the saints who are in need. Practice hospitality. 14Bless those who persecute you. Bless and do not curse. 15Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep. 16Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but associate with the lowly. Do not be conceited. 17Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Carefully consider what is right in the eyes of everybody. 18If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone.

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My love is sincere. I honor others in my home, practice hospitality, rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep. I do not repay evil for evil, and as far as it depends on me, I live at peace with everyone.

1If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a ringing gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have absolute faith so as to move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and exult in the surrender of my body, but have not love, I gain nothing. 4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs. 6Love takes no pleasure in evil, but rejoices in the truth. 7It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be restrained; where there is knowledge, it will be dismissed. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when the perfect comes, the partial passes away. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I set aside childish ways. 12Now we see but a dim reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. 13And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of these is love.

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Love is patient and kind; it does not envy, boast, or keep a record of wrongs. I bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, and endure all things in my home. Without love I gain nothing, so I choose love, the greatest of these.

7Beloved, let us love one another, because love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9This is how God’s love was revealed among us: God sent His one and only Son into the world, so that we might live through Him. 10And love consists in this: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins. 11Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God remains in us, and His love is perfected in us.

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I love the people in my home because love comes from God, and God is love. He loved me and sent His Son for my sins, so I also love one another. When we love one another, God remains in us and His love is perfected in us.

7Endure suffering as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? 8If you do not experience discipline like everyone else, then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. 9Furthermore, we have all had earthly fathers who disciplined us, and we respected them. Should we not much more submit to the Father of our spirits and live? 10Our fathers disciplined us for a short time as they thought best, but God disciplines us for our good, so that we may share in His holiness. 11No discipline seems enjoyable at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it yields a harvest of righteousness and peace to those who have been trained by it.

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I endure discipline, for God is treating me as His child. I respected my earthly parents who disciplined me, and I submit even more to the Father of my spirit and live. Discipline is painful now, but it yields a harvest of righteousness and peace.

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